Sunday, April 2, 2017

March

We had the weirdest day at church. Little A had a substitute for her church class that day. The teacher gave them a treat which she was very excited about. During sharing time she ran over to me to show me. On her way back to her seat she ran into the Primary Leader who was teaching and fell down. I took her out and calmed her down. Shortly after we got back inside they started clapping and cheering! This is a sensory overload for her so I had to take her out again to calm her down. We went back in, and shortly after she needed to go potty. She didn't pull her pants down far enough so the pee ended up getting on her pants and panties. I took them off of her, and we were washing our hands when someone turned the lights out! The bathroom is set up a little different. You enter through a door, then there's a small area in between two doors where the light switch is located, then you go through the second door to enter the bathroom. So, when the light is out there really is no light. Not even light coming in through the bottom of the door! I ran into Little A and the counter top/changing table while I was trying to find the door (also I have night blindness so I really can't see a thing in the dark). I finally found the door only to not be able to find the light switch so I continued to grope my way out the second door so I could open it to see the light switch. We gathered up our things and then went to find Allan, who had the diaper bag. While I was getting the diaper bag Little A flashed our friends, lol! We got through the rest of church and got loaded up in the van only to find that the battery was dead! We still haven't figured out what was on to make it die. Gratefully there were still people there so someone came out to help jump our van. Strange, strange day.

Baby L in the headphones she wore to the show I was in. She's so cute! I love how they smush her cheeks together! Ha!


Little A's school had the Cat in the Hat come one day. She was thrilled to have a "meowy" nose and whiskers just like on Halloween. She is still talking about how she is a "meowy". :)


They also had a BOGO book fair. I bought WAY too many books, but we've really enjoyed reading them. All the cute ladies passed Baby L around while I looked at books, ran out to the car for my check book, and back to the car to drop the books off. A really nice thing about small towns is that you know pretty much everyone, and there's always at least one person there that you know enough to leave your baby with if you need to. Although, when I came back in from dropping the books off I couldn't find Baby L. The teacher (who is the sweetest lady) had to gather her class, so L was in the hall with all the kids, who were fawning over her.

We also got a whole bunch of girl scout cookies. Yum! Little A was over the moon about them. She shared them with her friends when they came over to dance one morning, lol! They got caught in the kitchen snitching cookies!


We've really been enjoying the warmer weather. Baby L loves to swing just like Little A.


Baby L turned 9 months old! She is getting so big! She also started babbling! It is the cutest thing! Every now and then she'll mimic something we say. So far she's said "ready" and "oh, wow". Ha! She also says Mama and Dada. Mama is almost always if she's mad or in distress.


I cut my hair! It was a much needed change. I've been talking about it for the last 2 years to get Allan adjusted to the idea. Last time I chopped it he about had a heart attack. He actually really likes it this time. I thought Baby L and Little A might react badly to it, but when I came back the both laughed at me! They also laugh at Allan when he shaves his beard, lol!


Little A is still taking pictures. She took this one of the picture of Jesus in her room. She calls Him "My Jesus."


These two funny girls are buddies.


They adore each other. Baby L loves it when Little A will sit and play by her or with her.


A loves to give her soft kisses over, and over, and over, ha! Sometimes it drives L batty! Also, Little A picked out Baby L's outfit in this picture. I thought it was hilarious!


Both the girls just love it when Daddy with give them piggy back rides or toss them in the air. A calls them "neigh rides" and "high". Allan is such a good Daddy. He loves to play with them and is really good at playing with both of them together.


I let Little A pick out a treat for Family Home Evening. She picked some sugar cookies from the bakery at the grocery store. When she was done eating them she called herself the "cookie monster", ha! At school she is the "muffin monster". They make things at school sometimes (muffins, pancakes, etc.) for their snacks. Little A loves to eat anything she makes. One particular day they made chocolate chip muffins that I guess were quite large. She ate the whole thing (and I'm sure was a big mess after because she is still a very messy eater) which earned her the title muffin monster.


Baby L loves to play with things that she can wave around. She's a very expressive baby (except when the camera is out, then she refuses to look). When we give her something long that she can wave like a ribbon, stick, the toy pictured,


or this tube from our ball pump, she grins ear to ear and gets sooo excited waving her hands and bouncing up and down.


She also started giggling lately. She has had this really deep belly laugh for months, but now she giggles too. She actually likes to experiment with different giggles, it is soo funny!


Little A had a doctor appointment in a nearby city. While A and I were there Allan took Baby L to the store to stock up on some things. Afterward we went to a restaurant for lunch. Baby L was looking out the window. She suddenly squawked at Allan and then about 30 seconds later was sound asleep doubled over his arm.


When Little A comes home from school she is completely exhausted. She almost always asks to lay on the couch and look at stories and then quickly falls asleep. If she doesn't do this then she falls asleep at the table during dinner.


Allan was playing with Baby L one day and put her on top of his head. She immediately grabbed his hair and started gumming his head and growling/giggling!


I recently taught little A this fun game. She loves it! I'll get her up there, and we'll sing "She flies through the air with the greatest of ease, that daring young A on the flying trapeze." Then I'll cause some turbulence and set her down. She will do this over, and over, and over.


Baby L likes to get in on it too.


We got a late Christmas gift from Great Gram which was very thoughtful! In it were these darling hats!


Baby L has started to enjoy being read too. She's also learned how to turn the pages, although she doesn't always like to let go after she turns them.


Daddy was putting Little A down for a nap and they took this darling selfie.


Grandma and Grandpa gave little A a Cat in the Hat card game for her birthday. We love it and play it often. This time she drew the instructions to crawl to the bathroom and back with the fish on your head.


We had spring break and celebrated by having some fun play dates with friends we hadn't seen in a while. Little A was so happy to see her friends! We also celebrated World Down Syndrome Day. March 21st (for the 21st chromosome). We sure love our sweet girl!


We went to see the Lion King! We've been waiting for this for a year! We were very concerned about Little A getting overwhelmed and having to leave, but we thought we'd try. We talked about it a lot, about how there'd be clapping and cheering, lots of people, loud noises, scary parts, etc. We also watched the clips that they have online. I told her stories about "a little girl with brown hair, blue eyes, and the cutest dimples you ever did see" going to a show. We had a friend make her a head band to try to make her headphones more comfortable (which she ended up not needing) and bought her a treat to eat during the show, and made sure to sit as close to the aisle as we could. We were as prepared as we could possibly be.


She absolutely loved the show! The opening scene she was pointing at all the animals and was so excited. She got bored during the second act, but got right back into it whenever there was a song. We are so, SO proud of her!!! Allan and I also LOVED the show! The puppetry was amazing! All the performers were so good. We went with Nana and Pops and all the sisters and cousins. It was a really fun trip. (Also, a HUGE thank you to Grandma who watched Baby L for us so we could go!)


The biggest news for this month is that we got to finalize Baby L's adoption! We were so, SO excited! Some of our family were able to make it up to the hearing. Little A was so excited about our family coming she asked every day that week if they were going to be there that day. She was so thrilled when they finally came. She loved showing them the room we got set up for them.

The family got to sit in the jury seats which was fun for the kids. The judge is one of the leaders in our church congregation (the second councilor in the Bishopric of our ward). It was fun to have someone that we knew, it made it more like a special family gathering.


Our social worker said some very nice things in our home study. It made us feel really good! We've loved getting to know her and having her in our home. We're going to miss her visits. At the end the clerk ran out and came back with a bear for all of the kids and two special bears for A and L that the Judge picked out for them. It was the cutest, sweetest thing! The kids played with their bears all weekend! Little A has made sure that she doesn't go to sleep with out "my bear!" by her side.


We are so grateful for Baby L's birth family. We're so grateful for the sacrifice they made for her, for the kind and loving people they are, and we hope that we can do their sacrifice justice by giving her the full and happy life they hoped she would have.

Sunday, March 19, 2017

February

We bought a Mini Van! We are hoping to adopt more children so we've been on the lookout for a while for a good deal. We found one sooner than we expected! We have LOVED having a van! Little A loves being up higher so she can see better. I've loved that I don't get stuck in the snow anymore (it is an all wheel drive mini van).

Nana and Pops were out of town for Little A's birthday so we had a birthday party for her when they got back. She LOVED all of the gifts they gave her! The family all went in on an art kit. Coloring books, stickers, paint, markers and crayons, etc.


Nana made cake pops on top of ice cream cones. Little A's two favorite things!


We got the infant-toddler program set up for Baby L so we can now have PT in our home. That has been really nice! She is still progressing really well, except she isn't a fan of being on her hands and knees. That's the next thing we're working on. To get her used to it we've been using an exercise ball. She loves bouncing on it. Little A is such a good helper too. She will get her ball, and they'll bounce and giggle. It distracts Baby L enough that I can get her on her hands and knees.

We had a meeting with Little A's teachers to talk to them about how she is doing and getting a diagnoses for Sensory Processing Disorder and possibly Apraxia of Speech. She is doing GREAT in school! We started occupational therapy on top of speech therapy due to the sensory things with her hands. She really loves OT. We're doing it at school and privately. We'll be seeing a child psychologist in March to work on a diagnoses. I'm relieved to finally be getting somewhere with this and hoping that she'll finally get the help she needs.


The kids at Little A's school adore Baby L. They fuss over her every day! Little A LOVES to show off her sister and makes sure everyone gets to see her before we leave, ha!

I did a Broadway Review this month. I sang my first solo ever (other than at church). I sang "Can't Help Lovin' that Man of Mine" from Showboat. It went really well!


I also sang an all girls number, "I'm Not at All in Love" from Pajama Game, a duet with my cute friend "Stepsisters Lament" from Cinderella (this one was SOOOO fun to do!), and the cast number "Seasons of Love" from Rent. I also did a little bit of choreography for some of the songs. It was a fun show. We sold out +2!


Allan took the girls so they could see me in the show. They had been such troopers listening to me practice for several weeks. Their favorite one to watch me do was "Stepsisters Lament". They would laugh and laugh! They both wore their headphones so it wouldn't be too loud. Little A loved eating all of the refreshments, and Baby L fell asleep.

We had a nice Valentines Day. We don't really do anything. Allan always gets the girls and I flowers and/or chocolates.


Little A was super excited to give Daddy his valentine, and give her classmates theirs.  She LOVED all the valentines she got at school and looked at them over and over.


She also loved this valentines display at the grocery store and wanted me to take her picture with it, lol! She's such a cute, funny girl!


Baby L turned 8 months old! She is the size of a 12 month old!


Her favorite thing to do is take things out of the yellow bucket (the bottom of her shape sorter). She also loves to bang things around in it and make a lot of noise.


She loves to scoot herself backward and turn circles on her belly.


Sad story. I got a Johnny Jumper from my friend. We'd tried one at K3's house, and Baby L LOVED it! I put her in it while I was getting ready for the day. She and Little A were playing so good. I had talked to Little A about not swinging it so that L wouldn't hit her head. Little A is always really obedient so I wasn't too worried. Unfortunately Little A got too excited and swung Baby L right into the edge of the door frame. :(  It was a pretty bad hit. Her forehead was pretty dented in. I called the doctor, but it came back out pretty quick, and she seemed fine. By the end of the day she barely had a bruise. I haven't been brave enough to pull out the jumper since.


Little A got to have a play date with her bestie. These two are just so cute together. I wish they could see each other as often as they used to.


We had a family fun weekend. We camped out in the basement (still too cold and snowy to go outside).


We played some games and watched a movie with popcorn. Little A was SO excited she couldn't contain herself. It took us forever to get her to sleep.


Baby L slept for about an hour in her pack-n-play and then decided she didn't like it, so Allan ended up sleeping upstairs on the couch most of the night.


Little A is learning how to take pictures. Sometimes they look like this,


but other times they look like this!


Little A is obsessed with Play Doh. She LOVES it! I made the mistake of giving her all of the colors at the same time, so the doh only lasted a couple of weeks. She kept forgetting to put it all away. We do love to play it together though.


Story time with Daddy.